Ariadne’s Notes: The World Poetry Café Radio Show with hosts Ariadne Sawyer and Neall Ryon, plus super engineer Victor Schwartzman and volunteer Sharon Rowe welcomed the talented author Sarah Schulman with her new book, Conflict is not Abuse on CFRO 100.5 FM November 3rd at 1:10 PM . A fascinating show with many listeners from around the world. E-poem by Richard Doiron and music by Bob Dylan and Mary Youngblood. I believe that this is the best book I have read on this subject. To hear this special show:
Conflict is not Abuse by Sarah Schulman:
“From intimate relationships to global politics, Sarah Schulman observes a continuum: that inflated accusations of harm are used to avoid accountability. Illuminating the difference between Conflict and Abuse, Schulman directly addresses our contemporary culture of scapegoating. This deep, brave, and bold work reveals how punishment replaces personal and collective self-criticism, and shows why difference is so often used to justify cruelty and shunning. Rooting the problem of escalation in negative group relationships, Schulman illuminates the ways in which cliques, communities, families, and religious, racial, and national groups bond through the refusal to change their self-concept. She illustrates how Supremacy behaviour and Traumatized behaviour resemble each other, through a shared inability to tolerate difference. Sarah is the author of 18 books and his beginning a new mystery book soon.
This important and sure to be controversial book brings insight into contemporary and historical issues of personal, racial and geo-political difference, as tools of escalation towards injustice, exclusion and punishment, whether the objects of dehumanization are other individuals in our families or communities, African Americans at the hands of police, people with HIV, and Palestinians. Conflict Is Not Abuse is a searing rejection of the cultural phenomenon of blame, cruelty, and scapegoating, revealing how those in positions of power exacerbate and manipulate fear of the “other” to avoid facing themselves. “
Publisher: Arsenal Pulp Press, www.arsenalpulp.com
With awesome brilliance and insight, Sarah Schulman offers readers new strategies to intervene on all relations of domination both personal and political. The core of this book provides ways to think and move beyond blaming and/or assuming victimhood — so that each of us may come to understand the role we assume in creating and sustaining conflicts in all our relations. Sharing myriad ways, critical vigilance can help us all understand that conflict need not be viewed as abuse, that essential distinctions may be made between the hurt we experience in conflict and the violence of abuse, Schulman offers a vision of mutual recognition and accountability that liberates. —bell hooks
It’s impossible to be invested in the world and not be invested in this groundbreaking and challenging book. From a position of artist and social critic, Sarah Schulman gives us a detailed and considered reading of some of our most overly determined and venomous conflicts. Conflict Is Not Abuse is a book to interrogate, ponder, and discuss. —Claudia Rankine
A compelling call out of call-out culture and everything that it messily dredges up, brings forward, and shunts away. —Canadian Art
Conflict is Not Abuse should prove to be essential reading for people interested in psychology, group dynamics, and social justice activism. —Global Comment
Schulman’s new work is a provocative rethinking of intimate and civil discourse for a rapidly shrinking world … a rallying cry for civil engagement and engaged civility. —Gay City News:
Sarah Schulman and Heather Love in conversation at BGSQD New York on November 5 (Nov 2016)”
Source: Publisher Arsenal Pulp Press with great thanks to Cynara Geissler.